Sex, Sexuality and Masturbation

As we accept the idea that sex is such fantastic aspect of our lives, we can easily accept the idea that masturbation could be perceived as a way to improve our sexual life and/or our sexuality, as well. That is because masturbation is often discovered by people in the early teenage years, and from there on, this practice can become an exercise manner that people play along to acknowledge their bodies by the best way, therefore, become a better lover for themselves and to their partners, too.

The masturbation practice, in spite of being so denied and condemned in the past as a dirty thing, is pretty much more clarified today. Psychologists and doctors have been deeply engaged in demystifying this so-natural way people have to enjoy their own sexuality, alone and together with their inner selves.

With regards to women and masturbation, the issue becomes a little bit more complex. They have always been the ones repressed about their ideas, needs and thoughts. When the subject entails masturbation, sex and sexuality, they have not even had a little bit of voice ever. The years passed by and they reached out for more room in society. They gained autonomy to be whoever they really want to be and say whatever they want to. According to this idea, it would be correct to say that they learned to explore their bodies too, and to say out loud the way they like to be pleased.

The game which men used to command in bed and only their needs used to be the issue, acquired new rules. The same way women bear further importance in society, today; they started to receive more respect as sexually-charged beings. However, women masturbate less than men and that comes as a fact. It could be vestige of the past and some guilt of conservative rising. We are in 2005 and there still are some resistance focuses against masturbation. Religion and families are the strongest, indeed.

Resistance against masturbation and sexuality exploration only make people to be more introverted, ashamed about their feelings and with guilt sensation. The human's nature has many ingredients and to masturbate is as common as to breath. To conciliate masturbation along with your life is to accept that you are human.

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