Sex, Sexuality and Masturbation
As we accept the idea that sex is such fantastic
aspect of our lives, we can easily accept the idea that masturbation
could be perceived as a way to improve our sexual life and/or our sexuality,
as well. That is because masturbation is often discovered by people
in the early teenage years, and from there on, this practice can become
an exercise manner that people play along to acknowledge their bodies
by the best way, therefore, become a better lover for themselves and
to their partners, too.
The masturbation practice, in spite of being so
denied and condemned in the past as a dirty thing, is pretty much more
clarified today. Psychologists and doctors have been deeply engaged
in demystifying this so-natural way people have to enjoy their own sexuality,
alone and together with their inner selves.
With regards to women and masturbation, the issue
becomes a little bit more complex. They have always been the ones repressed
about their ideas, needs and thoughts. When the subject entails masturbation,
sex and sexuality, they have not even had a little bit of voice ever.
The years passed by and they reached out for more room in society. They
gained autonomy to be whoever they really want to be and say whatever
they want to. According to this idea, it would be correct to say that
they learned to explore their bodies too, and to say out loud the way
they like to be pleased.
The game which men used to command in bed and
only their needs used to be the issue, acquired new rules. The same
way women bear further importance in society, today; they started to
receive more respect as sexually-charged beings. However, women masturbate
less than men and that comes as a fact. It could be vestige of the past
and some guilt of conservative rising. We are in 2005 and there still
are some resistance focuses against masturbation. Religion and families
are the strongest, indeed.
Resistance against masturbation and sexuality
exploration only make people to be more introverted, ashamed about their
feelings and with guilt sensation. The human's nature has many ingredients
and to masturbate is as common as to breath. To conciliate masturbation
along with your life is to accept that you are human.
Bring back chaperoned
dating!
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